A female members club based in London. Imagine bringing the conversation of a good neighbourhood’s sex club to your nana’s knitting circle.

We host women’s only events in London to talk about sex with the aim of normalising the conversation around female sexuality, it’s lumps and bumps, it’s oooh and aaahs.

We own our sexuality, know our pleasure and seek our satisfaction. We live life on our own terms.


We Don’t Judge

Because we don’t need that bullsh*t.


We Are Normal

Because from kinky to vanilla we are ALL sexual deviants.

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We Embrace

Because we are amazing, just the way we are.


We Are Free

Because talking sex is not just fun, it’s super liberating, too 😉

What Our Members are Saying

  • Gorgeous gals. With a mission : that will free the feminine form. Bound up in a sisterhood of oppression of sexuality. Now the new sister – hood is formed. Go girls. Fly the flag!😍. Big luv : in a way not done before….❤️💃🏻💐

    Anne Marie
  • I invited a friend, I thought it might be a bit awkward because we weren’t that close before, but it ended up being great. We both opened up with no issues at all and felt comfortable the whole time. Pretty sure we’re better friends now.

  • I think too many women are uncomfortable taking control of their own sexual pleasure, speaking openly and shamelessly, even together. Scarlet Ladies attempts to change this by focusing on empowerment and removing stigma in a safe and non-judgemental environment. For women to share their stories about their insights on their sexuality, isn’t just powerful. It’s a public service.

    Aoife - Drurytherapy , Psychosexual Therapist

The Female Pound

All of our partners are female owned companies. So when we shop we know we are voting with our Pounds to support women in business.

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