FAQ

What are Scarlet Ladies? 

Scarlet Ladies are a community for women who want to be sexually empowered. It is a safe environment for women to learn, share and make new friends.

Where are your events based?

All of our signature events are based at our Home, 23 Paul Street unless otherwise stated.

What are Scarlet Ladies not?

Scarlet Ladies are not a self help group and we cannot offer professional help for deeper . If you feel you require more personalised help, we can however point you in the direction of someone who may be able to offer this to you.

Events

How much do I have to get involved?

As much or as little as you like. During our events, the speakers will do most of the talking. If you have any questions, we would like you to feel comfortable to ask them.

There may be an interactive aspect to some of the events and we would encourage you to participate as much as you possibly can to get the most out of it for yourself.

Will there be physical interaction?

Some workshops may be interactive. However, these interactions will never be of a sexual nature. Our events are to talk about sex and for you to learn as much as you like and then take that home and use at your own leisure.

Will there be nudity?

Specific events may include some nudity or demonstrations. It will be clearly stated for each event and while we do encourage you to step out of your comfort zone as much as you can, you should not book onto events if you feel the content may offend you.

Who are your events for?

Our events are for females including transgender females 18 years and above who are on their way towards sexual empowerment. We encourage our members to focus on themselves and help them to discover and confidently communicate their needs and boundaries.

Who are your events NOT for?

Our events are not for men unless otherwise stated. They are also not for females below 18 years of age or females who are closed-minded or judgmental. We have no time for abusive behaviour.

Are your events for LGBT women?

Our events are for females. All females from all different sexual backgrounds. Whether you enjoy dick or pussy or a bit of both, you are welcome in our round.

Will there be men at the events?

Yes, we host periodic events for couples where men are invited to attend with a female partner.

Can I bring friends that aren’t members?

Yes. If you are a member, you know and understand our ethos and our code of conduct. We trust you that you will only bring friends that will adhere to it also.

Can I sign up to events if I am not a member?

Yes. You can attend our Talk of The Town, FIERCE Talks and Scarlet Socials. However, we prioritise our members for all events.

Someone makes me feel uncomfortable, what do I do?

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable during an event and you do not feel comfortable challenging them, please come to speak to either Jannette or Sarah and we will happily try and resolve the situation. We want to make sure that everyone is happy during our events and will not tolerate abusive behaviour.

Online Community and Membership

Will my details be safe?

We will never share your details with third parties without your consent.

How can I remove myself from the Scarlet Ladies?

If you no longer want to be a member, simply contact us via email at [email protected]

How much does membership cost?

Membership to Scarlet Ladies range from free to £40 per month plus £20 joining fee.

Who is your membership for?

Our membership is for females including transgender females 18 years and above who are or are on their way towards sexual empowerment. We encourage our members to focus on themselves and help them to discover and confidently communicate their needs and boundaries.

Who are your events NOT for?

It is not for females below 18 years of age or females who are closed-minded or judgemental. We have no time for abusive behaviour.

Someone makes me feel uncomfortable, what do I do?

We do not tolerate abusive behaviour. If a member makes you feel uncomfortable within the online community, you can report them here (link)

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